Pack of our 4x6 How To Ask For Help Double Sided Quick Cards printed for distribution or display. These cards contain the following information:

HOW TO ASK FOR HELP
When you’re experiencing a mental health challenge, here is how you can reach out!

Reflect and recognize the amount of courage it takes to have this conversation in a world full of stigma. Be proud of yourself for taking this step!  

WHO TO REACH OUT TO
Make a list of the people you’re considering! Include the people you feel closest to (parents, guardians, siblings, friends, teachers, partners, etc.). This list could also include hotlines, warmlines, and professionals like therapists or counselors.

HOW TO REACH OUT
Some of the phrases you can say, when reaching out for help include:
I’m struggling with my mental health, and all the coping skills I know aren’t working. Can you help me figure out what to do next?

• I’m going through a tough time and I feel like you’re someone I can trust. Are you free to talk [insert day and time]?

• I’m going through a stressful time. Can you check in with me on [dates or days] just to make sure I’m alright?

• I’m having a hard time taking care of myself. I need extra support around [insert task]. Can you help me out?

• I’m not feeling like myself these days. I want to learn some strategies so I can start feeling better. Can you help me with that?

• I’m having a rough day or night, but I’m not ready to talk about it. Can you help distract me by [insert activity]?

• I don’t want to be alone right now. Can you stay on the phone with me or come over until I calm down?

• I am feeling [depressed, anxious, suicidal, etc.]. I’m not sure what to ask for, but I need some help deciding what to do next.

OTHER RESOURCES
You can access the Hope For The Day^® Resource Compass at HFTD.org/find-help. The Resource Compass is a tool that allows us to search any US Zip Code for a variety of social services in the area, including free & sliding-scale resources for mental health.

You can also access any of these lifelines! Many of them are 24 hours, including the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline and the Crisis Text Line—where you can text with a trained crisis counselor.

NATIONAL SUICIDE PREVENTION LIFELINE (800) 273-TALK(8255) *Now known as THE 988 LIFELINE - 988

CRISIS TEXT LINE - TEXT ‘ITSOK’ TO 741741

SUBSTANCE ABUSE & MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES - 1-800-662-HELP(4357)

NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSUALT HOTLINE - (800) 656-HOPE(4673)

FOR VETERANS - CALL (800) 273-8255 (PRESS 1) OR TEXT: 838255

TRANS LIFELINE - (877) 565-8860

THE TREVOR PROJECT FOR LGBTQ+ YOUTH - (866) 488-7386

QR CODE TO HFTD’S RESOURCE COMPASS LOCATED AT HFTD.ORG/FIND-HELP

Hope for the Day® (HFTD) is a non-profit movement empowering the conversation on proactive suicide prevention and mental health education.